{"id":290,"date":"2013-10-06T18:54:53","date_gmt":"2013-10-06T18:54:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/?p=290"},"modified":"2013-10-06T18:56:27","modified_gmt":"2013-10-06T18:56:27","slug":"girl-power-rwanda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/2013\/10\/06\/girl-power-rwanda\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Girl Power&#8221; Rwanda by Marissa"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n\tAt first it was difficult to see the link between coaching cricket and HIV\/Aids education. &nbsp;How wrong was I. A few days ago we visited Faw<a href=\"http:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/files\/2013\/10\/DSC05943.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"DSC05943\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-288\" height=\"168\" src=\"http:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/files\/2013\/10\/DSC05943-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/files\/2013\/10\/DSC05943-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/files\/2013\/10\/DSC05943-1024x575.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/files\/2013\/10\/DSC05943-250x140.jpg 250w, https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/files\/2013\/10\/DSC05943-510x286.jpg 510w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>e Girls Secondary College (Kigali). &nbsp;After a massive downfall of rain we braved the large puddles and roaming cows to play some cricket. &nbsp;It was their first introduction to the game and within a few hours of coaching we could see great potential for the Rwandan women&#039;s squad. They loved it.\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\tAt Fawe Girls Secondary I had the pleasure of meeting 16 year old Teta. &nbsp;At the CWB training weekend they talk about &quot;your story&quot;, Teta is mine. After I interviewed Teta for the purpose of CWB monitoring I turned off the camera and asked her if she had any questions. &nbsp;She had many&#8230;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\tWe talked about losing your virginity, abstainence, sex, marriage and the differences between our cultures. &nbsp;It was a very honest and open discussion. &nbsp;I then went on to learn that Teta&#039;s parents are survivors of the genocide. &nbsp;She has very little surviving extended family and attends school with girls whose parents are still serving sentences for committing acts of genocide. &nbsp;Teta is determined to live in a peaceful country and has been brought up to &nbsp;to see the &quot;good&quot; in everybody. &nbsp;Her ability to forgive, to love and believe in a peaceful future for Rwanda is astounding. &nbsp;She was inspirational and will change my life in the most positive way. &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\tOver the last week of coaching at different schools, I have had many countless conversations with young women who are desperate for information on love and sex. &nbsp;Most of the girls cannot seek advice from parents or teachers, and turn to their friends for support. &nbsp;It is unlikely that this advice is completely accurate. &nbsp;I have also learnt that nothing is as easy as ABC when it comes to safe sex. The girls in Rwanda, like all of us, fall in love. I met Betina when coaching in Kagarama. Betina is in love and wants to marry a boy who is HIV positive, she had many questions and I certainly didn&#039;t have all the answers.&nbsp;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\tIn the past week I have experienced the power of the CWB approach. &nbsp;Through sport we develop trust and create an environment where young women can feel free to ask the uncomfortable questions. I admire all these girls who face many challenges in the next few years and wish them a safe and healthy future. &nbsp;&nbsp;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\t&nbsp;\n<\/div>\n<div>\n\tMarissa\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At first it was difficult to see the link between coaching cricket and HIV\/Aids education.&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/2013\/10\/06\/girl-power-rwanda\/\">Read the post<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">&#8220;Girl Power&#8221; Rwanda by Marissa<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":52,"featured_media":288,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/290"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/52"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=290"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/290\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":294,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/290\/revisions\/294"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/288"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=290"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=290"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/rwanda13\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=290"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}