{"id":116,"date":"2022-11-01T04:00:51","date_gmt":"2022-11-01T04:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/?p=116"},"modified":"2022-11-01T04:00:56","modified_gmt":"2022-11-01T04:00:56","slug":"myths-and-misconceptions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/2022\/11\/01\/myths-and-misconceptions\/","title":{"rendered":"Myths and misconceptions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>We have made it to the end of our first week in Kenya and what an amazing time it has been.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3546&nbsp;children coached<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>12 schools visited<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1 festival with 5 schools&nbsp;and 150 children&nbsp;attending.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hundreds of HIV&nbsp;question cards shared with the children and many HIV&nbsp;quizzes&nbsp;completed with both children and teachers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Soon after we arrived in Kenya we took the decision to allocate one of the team to&nbsp;roam&nbsp;around&nbsp;schools&nbsp;talking to children and teachers&nbsp;about HIV and gender inequality&nbsp;and also&nbsp;to get them&nbsp;to participate in the phone based&nbsp;HIV quiz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We knew that there were many myths and misconceptions surrounding HIV in&nbsp;Africa&nbsp;and&nbsp;Kenya&nbsp;is&nbsp;no different&nbsp;but we were keen to know if things had changed much since we were last here before&nbsp;COVID. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the enduring myths&nbsp;is that you can get HIV from kissing and while taking the quiz many children,&nbsp;some adults and even a head teacher&nbsp;thought this was correct, they term it as&nbsp;\u201cdeep kissing&#8221; which I&nbsp;understand means the use of the tongue and not just lips.&nbsp;They are all very surprised when the answer is no&nbsp;and some&nbsp;even&nbsp;say they are&nbsp;taught this in school,&nbsp;a case of educating the educators.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At one school I was talking to a couple of teachers about what&nbsp;CWB&nbsp;does and asked&nbsp;them&nbsp;if they would like to take the HIV quiz. They&nbsp;answered all of the questions correctly which was great&nbsp;and then the conversation evolved with the teachers asking me other HIV questions and also telling me of experiences they had come across, all of which confirm the need for greater education, and the&nbsp;breaking down of the stigma attached to HIV.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A person from the local village had contracted HIV and was convinced that a whole&nbsp;body blood transfusion would cure them of HIV and they were going to&nbsp;try to get this done, unaware that this is a&nbsp;myth about HIV.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The teacher then&nbsp;told me about a child who&nbsp;had the HIV virus and both parents had recently died&nbsp;of AIDS, she asked what would happen to the child.&nbsp;Would the village exclude the child&nbsp;through&nbsp;fear&nbsp;of&nbsp;contracting&nbsp;HIV, would the&nbsp;close family care for the child or would they refuse, also from fear of HIV&nbsp;or being excluded from the village&nbsp;if they did so, family bonds being tested to the limits.&nbsp;The child may&nbsp;be taken to an orphanage&nbsp;and cared for&nbsp;there, breaking the family bond and leading to a life of uncertainty.&nbsp;All questions that are far&nbsp;too&nbsp;common across sub&nbsp;Saharan&nbsp;Africa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One story\u00a0touched me deeply about a\u00a0girl who had HIV from birth\u00a0and was diagnosed with HIV as a teenager. She was put on a course of anti-virals\u00a0which helped to reduce the\u00a0HIV\u00a0and all was going well.\u00a0However as time passed more people came to know of her status\u00a0and she started to be excluded from friendship groups and activities. This brought on anxiety,\u00a0stress and\u00a0depression\u00a0she\u00a0questioned her parents as to why this had happened to her, she had always been a\u00a0good girl, had never slept with anyone\u00a0or shared needles, why was she being punished.\u00a0Seeing no future or way forward for herself she\u00a0made the conscious decision to stop\u00a0taking her anti-virals\u00a0and tragically\u00a0her\u00a0condition worsened\u00a0over a period of time\u00a0and she died.\u00a0This case could so easily\u00a0have\u00a0had a different outcome\u00a0with more care, compassion, education and less stigma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At another school we visited we talked with Secondary age children. We set up 2 specific HIV stations\u00a0and we had some amazing questions and conversations.\u00a0How to put on a condom, how many\u00a0times\u00a0can you use a condom, what do you do if a condom splits, can you get HIV from sharing underwear, if I miss my medication for one day will my HIV come back straight away. All great questions which we discussed openly helping to break down some so the stigma surrounding HIV.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The last few days have reinforced&nbsp;why we come to Kenya, to help young people stay safe,&nbsp;bust&nbsp;myths and&nbsp;misconceptions, talk&nbsp;or just listen&nbsp;confidentially&nbsp;to young people about their fears and prejudices&nbsp;and give advice if asked for.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As we were leaving the last school a group of older, sexually active\u00a0teenage boys, full of bravado,\u00a0were saying that\u00a0they \u201cwould rather die than pay for HIV medication&#8221;. This was the last myth we busted before we left. Anti\u00a0virals\u00a0are free in Kenya, readily available from government hospitals,\u00a0as\u00a0are\u00a0condoms, so\u00a0go get some and don&#8217;t be embarrassed to do so as a few minutes of embarrassment is nothing compared with a lifetime of living with HIV.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nick<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We have made it to the end of our first week in Kenya and what&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/2022\/11\/01\/myths-and-misconceptions\/\">Read the post<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Myths and misconceptions<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":107,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/107"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":118,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116\/revisions\/118"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya22\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}