{"id":214,"date":"2019-10-08T07:28:28","date_gmt":"2019-10-08T07:28:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/?p=214"},"modified":"2019-10-08T07:33:50","modified_gmt":"2019-10-08T07:33:50","slug":"dance-like-a-mzungu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/2019\/10\/08\/dance-like-a-mzungu\/","title":{"rendered":"Dance Like A Mzungu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>It\u2019s the end of another good session under the scalding\nKisumu sun. The 50 kids in my sections are all gathered around as I conclude\nthe roundup, where we reinforce the HIV messages we\u2019ve been learning.\nEveryone\u2019s on point with their ABCTs, but I have another question for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u2018<em>Mzungus<\/em>,\u2019 I say, \u2018are very good at cricket. However,\nthey are famously bad at something. Can anyone tell me what it is?\u2019<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They usually get there quick enough &#8211; I prime them earlier\nby using \u2018dance like a <em>mzungu<\/em>\u2019 in one of the relay drills we do, getting\nthem to throw some pseudo-<em>Saturday Night Fever<\/em> shapes when they reach\nthe last cone. (NB: <em>mzungu<\/em> is Swahili for \u2018white person\u2019 \u2013 originally\nmeaning \u2018traveller\u2019, it\u2019s not a pejorative, and you get used to being called it\nvery quickly out here.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once we\u2019re all on the same page, it\u2019s time to start the\nprocession, from our corner of the dusty, pocked field to where all the\nsections convene. The kids are quick to pick up the chant:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-verse\"><em>Dance like a mzungu!<br>Dance like a mzungu!<br>Dance like a mzungu!<\/em><\/pre>\n\n\n\n<p>It grows in intensity as we wind our way on. I feel the\ncollective noise of their voices as a physical force on my back. It\u2019s actually\ngetting less <em>mzungu\u00ad<\/em>-like and more rhythmic, more incantatory. The kids\nare having a great time \u2013 I\u2019m not sure they\u2019re used to seeing \u2018adults\u2019 willing\nto make plonkers of themselves &#8211; but for me it\u2019s nothing short of magical. I\u2019m\nbreathless, dancing and chanting, chanting and dancing. The pie-eyed piper. In\na weird way, I\u2019ve never felt more myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Had I showed the video of it to my younger self, he would\nnever have believed it possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/KC5M5G_Gqis?rel=0&amp;showinfo=0\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen=\"\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I first came to Kenya exactly twenty years ago, September\n1999, a callow, gap-yearing 17-year-old. While I\u2019ve always held the experience\nclose to my heart, it has always been tinged with regret. Naturally enough,\ngiven my age, I was in survival mode much of the time. I was too\nself-conscious, too inhibited, too bewildered, to truly engage with a such a\nradically different place. I never really felt like I connected, because I\nnever really tried.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Two decades later, here was my chance to make up for that.\nTo make connections wherever I could. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Connections with the kids we coached, cramming in as many fistbumps and high fives as possible, answering all the questions, enjoying a good mobbing by the little ones, drinking in the smiles and the enthusiasm (if you ever want to feel like a rock star, get your <em>mzungu <\/em>backside to nearest Kenyan primary school). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"http:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2137-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-218\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2137-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2137-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2137-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2137.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Connections with the local coaches and ambassadors, learning\nfrom them, seeing how hard they work to spread the love of cricket,\nunderstanding and appreciating the sacrifices they make in order to do so. Two\nof the great privileges of the trip was to be fed lunch in Coach Nico\u2019s\nfather\u2019s compound near Siaya, and coach George\u2019s dad\u2019s house in Nakuru \u2013\ntourism doesn\u2019t afford such experiences and welcomes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Connections to the local culture \u2013 embracing new foods\n(hello to you, <em>nyama choma<\/em> \u2013 barbecued goat), learning dances (the <em>shukashuka\n<\/em>&nbsp;and <em>gwaragwara<\/em>, courtesy of\nlocal CWB volunteer Beatrice), picking up scraps of Swahili (<em>clutchy sana<\/em>),\nseeing how Kenyans go about their everyday lives. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Connections to new teammates. A disparate bunch of us, between the ages of 22 to 55. Some cricketers, some not. They are such funny f^&amp;%ers. One particular night in Muranga, eating in a deserted nightclub because the upstairs restaurant wouldn\u2019t serve us booze, I laughed longer and harder than I can remember. It was cleansing. Long bus rides were a pleasure in their company. It\u2019s amazing how quickly the bonds of trust can form, and, I hope, the foundations for lasting friendships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"http:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2392-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-219\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2392-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2392-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2392-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/files\/2019\/10\/IMG_2392.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>And, lastly, connections to myself. To see the how the safari<sup>1<\/sup> from 17 to 37 has changed me. From the perspective of this wonderful trip, the main thing is this: your ability to connect is determined solely by your willingness to do so. To embrace vulnerability and make a fool of yourself. To trust that if you open up, you will be accepted for who you are. To smile and be smiled upon. To hear the call and dance like a <em>mzungu.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Phil<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><sup>1<\/sup> FAO: Nick Withers, <em>safari<\/em> actually means journey in Swahili, rather than gawking at animals<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s the end of another good session under the scalding Kisumu sun. The 50 kids&#8230;<\/p>\n<div class=\"more-link-wrapper\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/2019\/10\/08\/dance-like-a-mzungu\/\">Read the post<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Dance Like A Mzungu<\/span><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":215,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/214"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=214"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/214\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":220,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/214\/revisions\/220"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/215"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=214"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=214"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cwbblogs.com\/kenya2019\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=214"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}